Ever been stopped in your tracks by something you saw in passing? I had one of those "a-ha" moments recently as I was frantically searching for a birthday card for a friend (destined to be late). The following quotation on a card grabbed my attention:
live with intention.
walk to the edge.
listen hard.
practice wellness.
play with abandon.
laugh.
choose with no regret.
continue to learn.
appreciate your friends.
do what you love.
live as if this is all there is.
-mary anne radmacher (emphasis added by me)
I would love to thank Mary Anne Radmacher in person. As I stood there, really stood there and thought for a moment (which if you know me I do not do very often, usually racing to one thing or another and tripping as I go) I realized that I am very fortunate to do what I do every day.
As an attorney I must be a fierce advocate for my clients and I certainly do my best to "listen hard," because my clients, when they are able to communicate, always provide me with the best information to help me help them. I am daily challenged and fascinated by the people and situations we encounter together. The stories I hear make me laugh, and often cry, too. I am fortunate to be in a profession that is geared to help, although I and other elder law practitioners are sometimes stymied in our efforts by legislators who do not understand how their poorly crafted laws effect their constituents and often thwarted in true planning options by the so-called "experts" who dole out mis-information (for a fee, but hey, it wasn't paid to that blood-thirsty lawyer) that causes heartache (are you listening, Suze Orman?). I have never regretted choosing to venture into elder law.
So Ms. Radmacher forced me to take stock for that fleeting moment, and in spite of the moments where I think it would be easier to simply beat my head against the wall than continue the daily battles, this little trip we are all taking has been a great ride so far.
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